Wednesday, April 23, 2008

Social Attitude to homosexual

this is my writing !!


There are vary greatly in different culture and different country's history, also attitude toward sexual desire and relationship.
Yesterday, I made a poll of SOCIAL ATTITUDE TOWARD HOMOSEXUAL. There is nothing to be surprised that a lot of people don't approve Homosexual, but finally I found some who are really opened mind and have good attitude to them. However, the statistics show that 40% approves Homosexual relationship and marriage, and 60% disapproves. So It's quite hard to accept a girl turns to be a boy especially to family and relative, but I think that's not their choice. Who wants to be monstrous in social? Who wants to be abandoned in family? Surely the answer is noone wants to be like that. They are still human - being, they should have an equal right to live, to work, to marry and to be happy. That's unfair when we have a bad attitude toward them, and it's worse when we completely seperate them in social.
I want to find some ways to give them a chance to be free in love, to be happy and life. And I hope the world will be changing sooner.
In my country , there are many Homosexual couples that must be broken up or they will be kicked out of their family. And their parents will never listen to their real feelings, parents will forbid their love and relationship. I have a friend in this case. She's my good friend, she found she is a lesbian, surely she knows her parents will break down when they know the real person she is. She tried to hide and live the way they want, do the thing they want, and now she's not living for herself, she lives for her parents' life. She's depressed, forlorn and stressed seriously . IT's impossible for her to marry the one she loves, and she said: " the only thing that I can do for myself only after my parents's gone. I will marry the one I truely love when my parents's gone".
According to Internet's report, Vietnam has only 13% of people to accept Homosexual relationship, instead of Germany has 83%, France has 77%, United Kingdom has 74% and Italy has 72%. But It's still better than in Africa, they have he lowest percentage of people to accept such a kind of relationship, with Kenya is 1%, Nigeria is 4%.
Anyway, I still find 2 interesting ones that support that relationship , and one said: "If I saw some gays and lesbians kissing on the street, I would tell them: be successful. I think world should be sympathized and generous to them, they didn't do anything wrong".

3 comments:

kazu said...

it's quite a complicated matter. if my sister were lesbian, i would accept it. but there are some people who strictly forbid it by their religiopn or house rule and their rules are as important as their freedom. oh, this is so difficult...

Tien Nguyen88 said...

I think this is a sensitive problem , especially some country which is seem like not open like Vn , but i hope in the future they consider about it and make a change .In my opinion ,i think it's nothing wrong with that. People should do think that's make them happy , life is short don't waste time . That's too bad about the story of that girl which is unlucky because your parent don't understand HER feeling .

Anonymous said...

Hi Ely,

I'm curious; where did you get your statistics? You have really thought about this issue deeply. Everyone should be treated with love, regardless of whether or not people agree with homosexuality.

Take care!